Mary Hood, better known as the "Relaxed Homeschooler" now has a new blog. Her newest post deals with Learning Styles - not just your child's but the parent's. She says,
"No matter how much we may try to focus on the needs of others, especially our children, our own subconscious needs and learning styles will always influence our interactions with others. That's why it is important to take the time, once in awhile, to think through what those might be."
One of my workshops deals with a similar issue of not only learning styles but temperaments. Some parents don't give much thought to the fact that they may encounter a clash of the wills somewhere along the line when they start the homeschool journey. If problems arise down the road, the blame often lands on curriculum, routine, or discipline to name a few. However, the friction might be as simple as differing perceptions due to temperament and learning style - theirs and their child's. Spending every waking moment together will magnify the situation.
If you have a moment, head over to The Relaxed Homeschooler's blog. Reading about "Learning Styles" is a good place to start. I'll write more about the Tiggers and Eeyores in your life a little later.

Jane! Thank you for posting this! We are taking a short break (1 semester) from home schooling while we train in TN. Praise God that the kids are loving the school they are in and having a blast making friends. But we will return to home schooling when we get to Utah for the start of our next school year. To be completely honest, though I very passionately believe home school is the best for my kids, I have many days that I dread it for exactly the reasons you mentioned above. We say that parenting gives us more of a glimpse of God's love for us and places a mirror in front of us of our faults as they get reproduced in our children, but home schooling and the 24/7 really does multiply that! And then throw in personality clashes and well, it's just not something I take lightly anymore as we get into older grades, etc. I look forward to reading your friend's blog and hopefully gaining insight into how to deal with some of those conflicts. (I feel like I made my previous experience sound miserable, it wasn't...I loved it about 80% of the time. It's the last 20% that I look forward to "fixing".) Love from TN!!!
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Glad to hear from you Christy. Mary Hood is excellent! I'll be posting some tidbits from my workshops, etc. in coming days, so stay tuned! Love to you, your hubby and the kids! Enjoy your mom's visit too!
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